How to Talk to a Loved One About Getting an Eye Exam

Regular eye exams are about safety, independence, and long-term health—and helping someone you care about stay connected to the world around them.

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Why People Put It Off

Even people who take their health seriously tend to delay eye exams. It’s common to hear:

But eye exams aren’t just about updating a prescription. They’re also a way to catch serious conditions early—including glaucoma, cataracts, macular degeneration, and even signs of diabetes or high blood pressure.

Skipping them doesn’t just risk blurry vision—it can affect overall health, mobility, and quality of life.


When You’ve Mentioned It and Nothing Changed

It can be frustrating when you’ve already brought it up, maybe more than once. You want to be helpful, not nagging. You’re coming from a place of love—but they might hear it as criticism or pressure.

Instead of repeating the same message, try shifting how you approach the conversation. Empathy and curiosity often go further than facts alone.


How to Start the Conversation (Without a Lecture)

Here are some ways to ease into it:


What to Say If They Resist

If they say…


Ways You Can Support Them

Sometimes the barrier isn’t the exam—it’s everything around it. You can offer to:


Why It Matters

Vision loss happens gradually. Many people don’t realize how much they’ve been compensating—until they can see clearly again. But beyond sharper eyesight, regular exams can catch serious issues early, when they’re easiest to treat.

Whether they need glasses, treatment, or just peace of mind, an eye exam can make a meaningful difference. You’re not being pushy—you’re looking out for someone you care about.


We Can Help You Get Started

At Helpful, we support people in navigating all kinds of care conversations—including everyday things like eye exams. We can help you:

We’re here to make it easier to care for the people you love—and yourself.

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