A New Narrative for Diabetes

Language has a strong impact on perceptions and behavior. People with diabetes are aware of and bothered by the language used in diabetes care.

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Diabetes Narrative

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Flip the script

A shift is underway to use strengths-based, person-first language over the more demeaning problem-based, disease-first language of the past.

First, your loved one is not a diabetic. They are a person with diabetes. The change in language is important because the latter puts your loved one first – not their condition – and shows compassion and encouragement. This change alone enhances engagement and collaboration with you, and with their providers, and improves their outcomes and experience.

Next, even though it is long into the 21st century, exclusive forms of "can't" phrasing are still used over inclusive forms of "can" phrasing around diabetes. Rather than telling a person with diabetes what they can't do or have, try rephrasing it into something they can do or have. In other words, don't bother verbalizing anything but the alternatives open to them.

This approach is not specific to the words can and can't, but rather a general refrain from articulating the negative and instead highlighting the positive. Sometimes this is done without words altogether, such as simply ensuring that restaurants, destinations, events, activities, and so forth are diabetes-friendly. Or making good choices when you're planning an outing or grocery shopping and meal prepping for your loved one.

We also need to chuck judgmental words and sentiments that perpetuate negative stereotypes. Words like "cheating" when a person with diabetes has an extra serving or a sugary treat, or words like "brittle" for a person with diabetes who has increased difficulty maintaining healthy blood glucose levels or experiences many diabetes-related health events. And an industry favorite… "non-compliant" for persons with diabetes who deviate - even in the slightest - from one or more of their diet, exercise, or medication regimens, or the expectations set for them by their providers. "Non-adherent" is sometimes used as a substitute for "non-compliant" but it is really no better.

Remember that perfect blood sugar management isn’t necessary or even possible. Sometimes seeing the little picture and taking small steps is better than seeing the big one because even small steps are still in the right direction. 

We manage diabetes, we don’t control it

Regarding diabetes, one is possible, the other is not.

In an excellent article by Wardian (2017), she points out, "It is unreasonable to expect control over something if we do not know all of the factors influencing a given phenomenon. Thus, the notion of controlling diabetes places an impossible burden on both patients and their HCPs [health care providers]."

All the factors that influence diabetes cannot possibly be known, especially continuously throughout the day, because so many things come together in untimed, unquantifiable amounts - intake, output, activity or exercise, medications (including insulin sensitivity), illness, injury, stress, anxiety or depression, lack of sleep, gut function, the weather, hormones - the list goes on.

Your loved one can do everything "right" and still have unpredictable, unexpected highs and lows in their blood sugar.

The bottom line: diabetes will not do what you want.

As a caregiver, it’s important to reiterate messages of management over control with your loved one – and yourself! Control is an illusion. The victory of regularly maintaining glucose within a healthy range means that diabetes cooperated, but it was not controlled.

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Flipping the script to change these narratives can be tricky, especially ones that have been long held. Therapy can help with identifying what may feel automatic and find adaptive reframes. Learn more and speak to a therapist at Helpful here.

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RESOURCES

American Diabetes Association

Association of Diabetes Care & Education Specialists (ADCES)

Dickinson, J.K., Maryniuk, M.D. (2017). Building therapeutic relationships: Choosing words that put people first. American Diabetes Association: Clinical Diabetes, 35(1), 51-54. doi: 10.2337/cd16-0014

Dickinson, J.K., Guzman, S.J., Maryniuk, M.D., O'Brian, C.A., Kadohiro, J.K., Jackson, R.A., et al. (2017). The use of language in diabetes care and education. American Diabetes Association: Diabetes Care, 40(12), 1790-1799. DOI

Dickinson, L.K. (2018). The experience of diabetes-related language in diabetes care. American Diabetes Association: Diabetes Spectrum, 31(1), 58-64. doi: 10.2337/ds16-0082

Polonsky, W.H., Fisher, L., Earles, J., Dudl, R.J., Lees, J., Mullan, J., & Jackson, R.A. (2005). Assessing psychosocial distress in diabetes: Development of the diabetes distress scale. Diabetes Care, 28(3), 626-631. DOI: 10.2337/diacare.28.3.626

Wardian, J.L. (2017). Diabetes cannot be controlled, but it can be managed. American Diabetes Association: Clinical Diabetes, 35(5), 329-330. doi: 10.2337/cd16-0061

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